50 rays of light on sex and love addiction…

September 29th, 2017|Categories: Uncategorised|

Nothing is less sexy than sex and love addiction. At best I was hooked into self-destructive circles with unavailable partners or short-lived affairs. At rock bottom I was punching myself in the face and smacking my head against the wall. These days we live in a sex and love addicted society. Indulge in online casual dating and realize that everyone’s [...]

Podcast: Truly Me

February 22nd, 2017|Categories: Uncategorised|

This podcast is very special to me. It's a leading edge conversations between two human beings; all the more remarkable considering that: It's the first time Eleanor and I ever had a conversation We recorded it in one session taking less than 45 minutes We did it on Skype audio between London and Toronto After the recording Eleanor told me [...]

Sex and enlightenment

January 19th, 2017|Categories: Uncategorised|

Dragon Kings Daughter: Adventures of Sex and Love Addict narrates a true story of how a spiritually focused process of recovery transformed suffering into happiness. Framed within the context of a Buddhist philosophy, it goes without saying therefore, that not only does the book articulate a 'spiritual awakening' it references 'sexual experience' too. It was interesting to discover that both subjects proved [...]

How I came to practise cold laser therapy

December 20th, 2016|Categories: Uncategorised|

It was always my natural inclination to want to relieve suffering. As a child I aimed to become a doctor, but as a natural Humanities student I was deterred from a career in Western medicine. In the early ’90s I volunteered for the Terrence Higgins Trust and spent 5 years as a buddy at the height of the AIDS crisis in the [...]

podcast share up – experience strength and hope…

December 2nd, 2016|Categories: Uncategorised|

It was great to chat with Roifield Brown today on his Friday 15 show. Sharing my uplifting transformation of child sex abuse, addiction, suicide to unconditional love and absolute happiness, all told in my recently published memoir, DRAGON KING'S DAUGHTER: ADVENTURES OF A SEX AND LOVE ADDICT. Sound track includes Tori Amos "Silent All These Years" and Joy Division "Love Will Tear [...]

out of the gas light and into the light…

November 1st, 2016|Categories: Uncategorised|

I am really pleased to publish a piece about my experience of not only surviving child sex abuse, but seeing the perpetrator go to prison for his crimes, 40 years after the event. I have been able to share the entire story in my book, DRAGON KINGS DAUGHTER: ADVENTURES OF A SEX AND LOVE ADDICT. It is so important that [...]

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